From Shame to Empowerment: Redefining Narratives Around Sexual Abuse By Amethyst Roberson

By Alisha Powell | Apr 10, 2023


April is Sexual Abuse Awareness Month, dedicated to breaking the silence surrounding this complex topic and encouraging open dialogue within our communities. In this spirit, we will unveil lesser-known facts about sexual abuse, challenge commonly held assumptions, and highlight the resilience of survivors.


Sexual abuse can happen to anyone.

One of the most persistent myths about sexual abuse is that it only affects specific

demographics. The truth is that sexual abuse can happen to anyone, regardless of age, gender, ethnicity, or socio-economic background. By acknowledging the universality of this issue, we can foster empathy and understanding while breaking down barriers that prevent open discussion.


The majority of abusers are known to the victim.

Many assume that sexual abuse is typically perpetrated by strangers lurking in dark alleys. However, studies show that in most cases, the abuser is someone known to the victim, such as a family member, friend, or acquaintance. This revelation highlights the importance of fostering awareness and vigilance within our social circles.


Male survivors often face unique challenges.

While sexual abuse affects people of all genders, male survivors often face unique challenges due to societal expectations and gender norms. Men may be less likely to report abuse or seek help, fearing that they will be perceived as weak or emasculated. Recognizing and addressing these challenges is crucial to ensuring that all survivors receive the support they need.


Consent education is vital in preventing sexual abuse

Consent education is essential in preventing sexual abuse, as it teaches individuals about setting and respecting personal boundaries. This type of education emphasizes the importance of communication and understanding within relationships, helping to create a culture of respect and consent.


The impact of sexual abuse can be long-lasting.

The effects of sexual abuse can be both immediate and long-lasting, with survivors potentially facing a range of emotional, psychological, and physical consequences. These can include depression, anxiety, PTSD, and difficulties with trust and intimacy in future relationships. Recognizing the long-term impact of abuse can help communities better support survivors.


The role of technology in sexual abuse

With the rise of technology, new forms of sexual abuse have emerged, such as online

harassment, non-consensual sharing of intimate images, and cyberstalking. It's essential for communities to be aware of these evolving threats and to educate individuals about online safety and digital consent.


Healing is possible for survivors.

Although the healing journey can be complex and challenging, it's crucial to remember that recovery is possible for survivors of sexual abuse. With the proper support, therapy, and self-care practices, many individuals can move beyond their trauma and lead fulfilling lives.



As we recognize Sexual Abuse Awareness Month, let us challenge our assumptions and educate ourselves about the realities of this issue. By fostering open dialogue and

understanding within our communities, we can create a supportive environment for survivors and contribute to preventing future abuse.

About The Author

A R Therapy & Consulting LLC is owned by Amethyst Roberson, a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), National Certified Counselor (NCC), and a Certified Care Ready Life Coach. With her extensive experience in therapy, Amethyst is dedicated to providing quality service to her community. Amethyst has a proven track record of success in providing therapy services to individuals, couples, and families. She specializes in working with clients dealing with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and trauma. Her contribution to any organization is invaluable, as she brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise that can help improve the support and assistance we provide to those we serve. In addition, Amethyst’s leadership skills and passion for serving others make her an asset to

any team.



Alisha Powell

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